THE FAMILY. We were a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together. ~Erma Bombeck

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Christmas Season 2012

December was a really insane month for me.  It's my own fault because I didn't get enough of my "need to do's" done in the earlier months, to save room for the "want to do's".  But I decided I really wanted to do fun activities with the kids each day in December so I was just going to have to make it work.

We have a wooden advent calendar with 24 doors on it.  In each one I put a mini ornament to hang on our wall hanging tree, and also a slip of paper with a fun activity to do that day.  I figured it all out at the end of November and made sure to include all the parties and activities that I knew about, so I wouldn't over schedule the day.  But it was still crazy.  Here's what we ended up doing: 


Dec 1-  Decorated the Christmas Tree
Dec 2 – Had a Lasagna Dinner with the Oldhams and Walkers and watched the Christmas Devotional.
Dec 3 – Went shopping to pick out a Christmas Ornament
Dec 4 – Assembled and mailed a care package for Daddy.
Dec 5-  Put together a Christmas puzzle.
Dec 6 – Live Nativity in Henderson, and Ice Skating
Dec 7 –Luke’s Christmas playgroup at the house from 9:30-11:30.  In the evening we played a family game.
Day 8 – Ward Christmas Party
Day 9 –Christmas Book – Read "The Best Christmas Pageant Ever"
Day 10
Day 11 –  GRINCH NIGHT
Day 12 – 
Day 13 – Relief Society Christmas Party
Day 14 – Cole’s Christmas Party at the Stuarts, and Luke’s Christmas Party at the Dustins.  Aspen spending the weekend, along with Taylor and James Jenkins.
Day 15 – Mia’s Christmas party at Lexi’s.  Visited the Bellagio to see the conservatory.
Day 16- Visiting Teaching open house at the Stevensons. 
Day 17- Delivered Neighbor Gifts
Day 18-
Day 19-
Day 20- Luke’s Preschool Christmas Party.  Military Friend Christmas party at the Oldhams 7pm
Day 21 –  Nutcracker Field Trip.  Decorated a Gingerbread House.
Day 22 – Drew’s Work Christmas Party.
Day 23 –Christmas Piano Recital at Osbornes.  Then watched the POLAR EXPRESS and drank Hot Cocoa.
DAY 24 – CHRISTMAS EVE.  Dinner with friends and act out the nativity.   Open Christmas Eve Gift.

 I had to tell the kids up front that we might not be able to do EVERYTHING.  And as you can see, a few nights were just to crazy to make the activity work.  That's why they are blank.  I think what added to the exhaustion was that we also had basketball practice twice a week, volleyball practice twice a week, games every saturday, piano lessons and practice, scouts, and activity days. 

I found that I was going to bed at about 1:30am every night.  I didn't get enough of the shopping done while Drew was able to help me, so I suffered in the end.  I was starting to turn into a scrooge.  The Reese family was so sweet to invite us over for Christmas Day Dinner and I told them that I was sorry but I was going to spend the entire day in my pajamas and do my best to lay around like a lazy person.  And that's what I did.  Well, almost.  I didn't get ready at all, but I spent most of the day assembling things and running from kid to kid to make sure things were working.  

I'm documenting this Christmas schedule so I can remind myself next year NEVER to walk into December unprepared again.  I thought I was doing great with having my Christmas cards done and stamped before Dec 1st, but I could have done better than that.  Christmas is a time for love and happiness and being with family.  I need to make sure I am able to feel that!  

As soon as Christmas was over I felt so free.  The major stress was gone.  The kids were happy.  I had pulled it off.  Just in the knick of time too.  If I had to go one more week at the pace I may have killed over.  

1 comment:

Manda said...

You are super mom Melissa!! Just reading your list made me exhausted :)